Charisma Checklist

Presence

• Commands attention without forcing it
• Appears fully engaged in the moment
• Others notice when they enter a room

Confidence & Approachability

• Displays self-assurance without arrogance
• Maintains open, relaxed posture and steady eye contact
• Easy for others to approach or talk to

Communication Style

• Speaks with energy and clarity
• Uses gestures, tone and facial expression to engage
• Inspires rather than just informs

Listening Skills

• Actively listens (nods, mirrors, responds thoughtfully)
• Asks meaningful questions
• Makes others feel genuinely heard

Emotional Intelligence

• Reads group or individual moods well
• Shows empathy and validates others’ feelings
• Stays calm under pressure

Vision & Purpose

• Shares clear and inspiring ideas
• Aligns others around meaning or goals
• Motivates others to contribute or join in

Positive Energy

• Radiates enthusiasm and optimism
• Lifts the mood in conversations or groups
• Leaves people feeling more energized

Authenticity

• Appears genuine and consistent
• Values match actions
• Builds trust quickly

Influence

• Persuades by inspiration, not pressure
• Gains followers/supporters willingly
• Leads effectively, even without formal authority

Connection

• Relates to people across backgrounds
• Uses inclusive language and examples
• Builds rapport quickly

(main source: Peter Quarry, 2024)